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The Weddings Part 3: Having Fun In Hokkaido

28 Oct

After the craziness of the Singapore wedding, I was glad to have some downtime in Hokkaido. We were busy getting stuff done but the hotel really took care of most things and we just had to get the pre-wedding activities happening…I slept well every night, compared to the week leading up to the one in Singapore….(and we were now “experienced” so there wasn’t much to fret over).

I totally enjoyed the road trip we took to Lakehill Farm, Showa Shinzan Mountain, and Lake Toya…We drove around in rented cars and it was truly a nice day out in the boonies…

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I don’t really look identical to any of my family members but I think this photo shows similarities between my dad and me…Love the colours in this one! I would highly recommend this as a quick stop-over for ice-cream lovers because they have the best ice-cream in the area and a range of familiar flavours and really unusual ones like blue salt and pumpkin.

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Family photo at the steaming Showa Shinzan volcano…I think my parents and sisters loved Japan…They were already talking about their next trip before they left!

Most folks who came a few days before the wedding just played golf or tennis, or took a dip or two in the onsen at the hotel. We headed out to dinner a couple of times to Hirafu, a small village in near the hotel but I think most people were happy to chill out and we didn’t have to worry about everyone having a good time. I think a lot of the folks who came had busy work schedules so the chance to nap, wake up late, head to the hotel spa was actually a luxury they were looking forward to do.

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We also hiked halfway up Mount Yotei before most of the wedding guests descended on Niseko…Was a very lovely walk and the weather was warm but usually cooled by 4-5pm.

Then the weather turned very rainy and cold the day before the wedding…

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We had a a bit of a recce in the rain and then we did a rehearsal indoors as a backup plan.

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To be continued…

The Weddings Part 2: Singapore Morning Ceremony Video

19 Oct

As promised, here is the video of our Singapore wedding — it’s just half of what happened in the day but probably one of the most special parts of the entire epic wedding trip.

One thing I didn’t add in my previous post was that I came away from the whole experience thinking we were surrounded by such an excellent bunch of family and friends. I’ve only begun to truly understand it when people remark that your wedding day is the happiest day of your life. Mush, cheese, feel-good…not often I get like this…

Anyway, I would highly recommend this videographer because not only is he talented but he was great at communicating with us and understanding what we wanted. He is also a really nice guy who has contacts for photographers so you don’t need to hunt around for one separately.

Enjoy!

PS: I put the video under the cut because it automatically plays when the page loads and apologies to those who have visited this blog and the video keeps playing…Not sure how to stop that from happening but it’s still here if you wanna watch it…

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The Weddings Part I: Hotfooting it in Singapore

10 Oct

Hello my dear readers, I’m finally back in the blogging world after a long hiatus. I think life will soon go back to normal after I float out of my post-wedding haze — I’m still adjusting to being married (actually life is the same at home but we are basking in happiness that we finally did it!). It was the most amazing three weeks of my life and I can’t wait to share slices of what went down.

There are so many photos to wade through and download from Facebook – many thanks to my friends who uploaded their albums online (I didn’t take a single photo of my own) and the photos featured here were nicked from there.

I’ll just take you through the highlights because there was just so much going on…

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My hen’s night was a riot. I’ve gotta thank my gal pals for making it such a fun evening at House Barracks — we got a private room and while we noshed on excellent grub and wine, I answered a long and cheeky questionaire. They sent something like 60-70 questions to the kangaroo to answer and I had to guess what his answers were and if I got them wrong, I had to drink. Let me tell you I got a bit tipsy that night all because the kangaroo set booby traps, like “What is YM’s favourite movie?” and his answer was “The Transporter” (!!!), so you get the drift.

This sounds so cheesy but I was floored at the effort my girlfriends made for this night. They all got dressed up in gorgeous black outfits so I could stand out in my white top; I had a sash that said, “Bride-to-be”; I received some pre-wedding gifts; and their time and presence to “usher” me from being a single gal to a married missus.

I had very little sleep from that night onwards, and for those of you who are going to get hitched, it is possible to run on pure adrenalin for several days straight.

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I also feel like I need to mention this but our family pet, Coffee, a mini pinscher, passed away the night of my hen’s party which was really sad for us. She was coughing for the past several months and the vet said she had a weak heart so she was given some medication to ease her discomfort.

But her condition deteriorated in the last two weeks before her death. We knew she was terribly ill because she would hardly eat her food but we didn’t expect her to go so quickly. I’m glad I was around when it happened because it would’ve been even more awful if I was in Japan (that’s one really hard part about being away). I was so busy on this day but I remember she licked my fingers as I was making a phone call in the living room….

I just wanted to make a small tribute to my darling Coffee because my family really pulled themselves together for the weekend’s festivities despite being in mourning.

But let’s get back to the festivities….

We had a slew of overseas guests whom we wined and dined for two days before the wedding day. I had a lot of fun but I’m not sure if I would recommend this as I was seriously exhausted and quite stressed with last minute details I had to take care of at the same time.

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We decided to go for a traditional Chinese wedding which meant lots of gift-giving and antics in the early morning. The kangaroo arrived at my parents’ home at 830am sharp and the games began while I was still having my hair and makeup done. I heard my sisters drove quite a hard bargain but the mini-sisters (the kangaroo’s nieces from Sydney) were absolute slave drivers (“We want a THOUSAND dollars!”).

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The boys had to scoff down “suan tian ku la” (sour sweet bitter spicy) to represent the four elements of marriage life…The wasabi sandwiches caused some sputtering and tearing but I heard the dried sour plums marinated in lemon juice were the worst. Poor things…but I wasn’t to be handed over easily!

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There were non-torturous parts to the negotiation, like balloon volleyball, where the boys had to bounce heart-shaped balloons to each other while shouting something flattering about me. I heard that the kangaroo only managed one, “She makes good omelettes!” Pffttt… He told me later he was overwhelmed by the balloons and the crowd and was tongue-tied.

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Another fun challenge they had to do was a dance with glitter hats and oversized sunglasses. We actually have a video of the whole morning and will post it once I figure out how to get it online (the file size is enormous).

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After much ang pao (red packets filled with money) wrangling and great feats (the kangaroo also had to write “I Love Yu Ming” in traditional Chinese), he was finally allowed to unveil me…

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Then we had to eat “tang yuan” (sweet dumplings) which symbolizes a sweet and whole marriage. My mum made them super tiny so we could swallow them whole — we couldn’t bite into them because it would mean the marriage would be broken! Chinese traditions are so hilarious!

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The kangaroo had to give two sets of gifts to my parents and the second set was meant to be given three days after he fetched me. However, we didn’t have three days so we just drove around the block three times to simulate the passing of three days. In the second set was a ginormous roasted suckling pig (it weighed 20kgs!) which the kangaroo was very proud to present…In the old days, a woman was worth the price of a pig! He often teased me that if my sisters were too tough, he would turn around with his pig and get a cheaper bride down the road.

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We also had a tea ceremony which we served tea to elders on both sides of the family, with my elder sister acting as a translator because the whole event was in Cantonese.

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My mum, her sister, and our domestic helper whipped up a luscious Peranakan dessert spread to add to the festive mood. Everything looked so colourful and delicious!

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We also made up a booklet that explained all the Chinese wedding traditions for our non-Chinese friends and family.

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The kangaroo managed to buy this amazing-looking double happiness poster and we stuck it on the wall behind the buffet table.

We had a short break from the morning festivities before the solemnization and banquet started in the evening. I say short because we ended the morning stuff at 1pm and went back into hair and makeup at 3pm. I did nod off when I had my hair done but was awake in no time with nerves. I don’t know where they came from and I thought they would’ve been over because we went through half the day already…

The bridal suite was a corner of madness with bridesmaids, flowergirls, and one frazzled bride getting ready but before I knew it, I was kissing the kangaroo after our super quick vows…The JP we got was itching to go to the F1 finale so it was all over in a matter of minutes which was quite disappointing because we watched him in another wedding and he gave a speech and took his time…Oh well, we were going to say a proper set of vows in Hokkaido anyway.

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Yay – we were legally married at this point!

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Here’s a photo of us with our pretty flowergirls. My sister came up with the idea of cheongsam tops and poofy tulle skirts — they absolutely loved the outfits and were very proud to be my flowergirls. All evening, they kept coming up to me to say, “We love our dresses, and Yu Ming, you are the prettiest among all of us.” Awwwww….

The evening was back-to-back with speeches, a video of the morning ceremony and games, and singing by a dear friend, and lots of photo-taking. The day raced by but I had a couple of moments thinking, “Damn, all these people are here for us!!”

I was glad to have had done the whole traditional shebang because my parents were so pleased. It was truly a great day and it felt like it was all about celebrating us with friends and family supporting us in this new chapter of our lives. You don’t realize how important it is until other people in the room are shedding tears of joy and beaming at you for taking this crucial step together.

More to come on our second wedding…;)

My summer looked like this…

13 Sep

I know I have been MIA but a girl can only do so much with two weddings to organize and a business to run — I blog consistently at my Beauty Box space so head on there if you want to find out more about Japanese beauty products…

I’m about to leave for Singapore to get married! I’m so excited but wanted to zip in here to say hello…

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Summer is never complete without pretty yukatas on women here…I have yet to don one and hope to do so one day….

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I went on a Tokyo Bay cruise some Sundays ago and it was gorgeous and peaceful with a big group of Japanese friends. The kangaroo and I were pretty chuffed to communicate with them and hope to have more of such experiences. It’s all too easy to remain in a gaijin bubble and love it when I get the chance to venture out of it.

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Yummy peaches ad grapes were a staple for me this season…Did you know tree fruit is safer to consume from the Tohoku region? That’s because the tree roots grow deep in the ground and the radiation dust is on the top soil and doesn’t get down further than a few centimeters. I felt better after finding that out and have no qualms buying peaches and apples from the Tohoku region now.

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The temperatures were so bloody hot so I took to working out in the comfort of my living room. If you need to get shippy shape — move your butt to Tracy Anderson’s Metamorphosis….I think I lost a teensy bit of weight because of this DVD set.

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I went to a few house parties this summer and at one of them I won at bingo and nabbed this Puma bag as a prize! It was not out of luck but because lots of people dropped out due to excessive drunkeness — it pays to be the sober one in the room!

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I lunched with gal pals occasionally which was a lot more than before — glad to have made the effort because I tend to just dwell in my apartment for days on end, only surfacing to teach English a few times a week or buy food. This meal was at a Swedish cafe in Roppongi, called Lilla Dalarna — I had a lovely baked cheese eggplant dish with rice…

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A birthday dinner with dear friends at none other than Hainan-Chifan in Ebisu. The izakaya I wanted in Shibuya was full and it was a nightmare getting a reservation at a restaurant on a Saturday night last minute so I just picked my fave Singaporean restaurant.

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Discovering veggie pho with my friend Zhing. I think the soup stock is also veggie based because I didn’t get bloated and the runs when I usually eat animal-based stock despite ordering a veggie meal out in restaurants here.

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And a birthday waffle for dessert. Thanks, girl!

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Plus a gorgeous “massage candle” from another dear friend in Tokyo. Apparently you can rub your fingers on the candle and use it as a moisturizer. It doesn’t feel waxy at all and it smells divine…

I also had an amazing time in Taipei and I’m ready for a new chapter in my life. See ya in a month!

Tokyo Is OK 東京はOKです

4 May

I know my recent posts haven’t been the happiest but I think those of you who are interested in Japan would like to know that things are back to normal and the stress of the triple disasters (earthquake, tsunami, nuclear leaks) have melted away…at least where I am concerned.

Today I uploaded a video for my Beauty Box TV channel because I have been bombarded with many questions about Tokyo after the Mar 11 so I thought a video would be a much better way to address these concerns.

Here, I answer FAQs about radiation (or lack thereof) in Tokyo, whether it is appropriate to travel here, and if life is back to normal. Tokyo is back to her gorgeous, amazing self and you should come visit. Help Japan by coming here and spending your money so our economy can flourish again.

Being prepared helps ease earthquake fears

12 Apr

So, it’s been a month since the Mar 11 earthquake and the aftershocks seemed like they were calming down — I didn’t even notice any in the last two weeks, but last Thursday, April 7, the trend seemed to have swung the other way. It was a 7.1 earthquake in Miyagi, and then there was another one yesterday in Fukushima at 530pm, and this morning I was suddenly woken up by one that happened in Chiba, though rated at 6.3, it felt like a rough shake because Chiba is just a couple of hours south of Tokyo.

I’m fine but distracted when these earthquakes happen — I jump onto the news to make sure it isn’t a majorly catastrophic one. I won’t deny that my mood has been affected by the IAEA announcement that the Fukushima crisis rating has been revised from 5 to 7, though the accumulated radiation leaks are still lower than Chernobyl (which was rated 7 as well).

How am I dealing with this? I got prepared and I feel enormously better. I have been cobbling together things for my apartment and my earthquake “go bag”. I set some parameters on what would likely happen if a huge damaging earthquake happens in Tokyo:

+ If my building is badly damaged, ie. ceiling falls in, I would have to evacuate to a shelter or hotel, but I’ve been assured many times that new buildings in Tokyo will not collapse.

+ If my apartment is still alright, I may be stuck with the worst-case scenario of no utilities — gas, electricity, and water.

+ If I run out of food and the stores also run out of necessities, I will fly out of Tokyo. But if I can’t get an air ticket immediately, I’ll have some supplies to rely on till I do.

So what’s in my “go-bag”? Please don’t laugh at me when I mention some of my things because everyone has different needs. After my experience staying overnight at a friend’s place on Mar 11 and being a “radiation refugee”, I’ve come to understand what I really need as an average woman without her house.

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Getting back to normal…

30 Mar

Sorry for not posting lately — work has been so busy since my return to Tokyo last Wednesday night. After 10 days of being a “radiation refugee”, I was more than ready to get my hands dirty and shoot out orders that had been waiting to be sent off. I’ve also been fire-fighting radiation fears by customers who are concerned about buying anything made in Japan (I will address this on the Beauty Box blog in more detail).

I would say 90% of my customers are cool but 10% are either hysterical and/or paranoid. I had a customer demand for a refund just as we shipped off her parcel and accused us of “doing bad business” because we dared to sell products “tainted with radiation” and that she refused to “even touch the box” if it arrives at her doorstep. Please do not stop buying Japanese because the things that are directly affected are fresh produce and milk from Fukushima, Tochigi, Gunma and Ibaraki. Furthermore, the government is preventing any export of these foodstuffs from the affected areas so it is unlikely you would even see it in your local supermarket wherever you are. Also, these areas primarily sell their produce to bigger towns and cities like Tokyo, so if I’m not seeing it in MY neck of the woods, the probability of you seeing it on sale in the US or Europe or other parts of Asia is nil.

Other than that, life is getting back to normal in Tokyo. Last week was quieter and a bit more somber, but this week, I wouldn’t have guessed a terrible crisis just happened three weeks ago. Shibuya is bustling with shoppers and Akasaka (my ‘hood) is teeming with office workers which is heartening despite the rolling blackouts around Tokyo to conserve limited electricity due to the Fukushima plant being bust. The train stations and shops are dimmer due to using fewer lights, and after a week of this, I’m actually getting used to it.

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How to help Japan after the 3/11 disaster

21 Mar

Hi everyone, thanks for the comments on my previous posts. It’s been 10 days since the huge earthquake on Mar 11 and my conclusion is that the nuclear reactor problem is stabilizing and there will not be a nuclear meltdown despite the fact that the severity of the problem is now ranked 5 on a scale of 7 with Chernobyl as number 7.

It just means that there are wider consequences, for instance, spinach and milk were found to be contaminated with levels of radiation so these products are not allowed to enter the market. But in terms of the entire Fukushima Daiichi plant blowing up fumes of nuclear cloud that would reach Tokyo, that will not likely happen (I hope my family is reading this…).

There have been news articles that say the nuclear reactors have been distracting the public from the real problem, which is the dire situation up North Honshu where thousands are struggling without food, water, heat, and medical care. I would like to draw your attention to these poor victims who need our help…

You should be careful which channel you choose to donate money to as there are scammers out there, so I have compiled a list of groups and individuals whom I trust will get your donations to the right people.

Red Cross Japan
Salvation Army
Second Harvest – solid food distribution charity organization in Japan
Jhelp – an emergency relief non-profit group in Japan
For Japan With Love – group of bloggers who are raising funds for Japan
Hello Sandwich – a dear friend who is donating all the proceeds from the sale of her Japanese-inspired gift-wrapping zine
Insead Japan Community – a good friend who used to live in Tokyo has a link to her school, Insead, that is raising funds for Japan

I still think the nuclear problem in Fukushima is a source of great worry and concern, but the thousands of disaster victims also need our focus and help now.

Please spread the word and let’s help Japan get back on her feet.

48 hours after the 3/11 earthquake

19 Mar

I’m doing well in Miyazaki, Kyushu, and have been monitoring the news updates from our hotel room. I found a lot of comfort reading stories about the 11/3 earthquake so I decided to share some of my stories…It would be a type of “therapy” for me to talk it out here too…Please note that whatever I went through was nothing compared to those up North without heat, food, water, or a home.

When the earthquake struck

What was I doing just before the Big One came? I was typing away on my MacBook thinking about what to cook for dinner. It was Friday and because of my holiday in Melbourne, work had piled up and I was just looking forward to the weekend.

At a quarter to three, the apartment shuddered. I paused my typing, as I would when there are any noticeable tremors in Tokyo which is occasional. I just waited and looked out the window. The tremors seemed to have subsided so I actually went back to doing work. But just a few seconds later, the shuddering returned and the pots and pans on my stove rattled loudly. The dining table was trembling and I thought, “Should I be a scaredy cat and dive under the table?” I shook off my feelings of silliness and continued sitting where I was.

Then stuff started flying off the shelves, like my Beauty Box packaging, glass bottles on the kitchen shelves, and books etc. It was then I shot under the table and messaged the kangaroo in Sydney that a huge earthquake was happening. I stayed there for what seemed like a minute until the loud rattling stopped.

The office workers from the tall building behind my apartment came out looking bewildered. I, too, crawled out from under the table to go outside to take a look. I suddenly felt nauseous and dizzy but on hindsight, the swaying was still going on and I was trying to walk on unstable ground. It seemed peaceful outside so I went back in to type an update on Facebook with a racing heart. For ten minutes, there were no updates on Twitter or Facebook, so I resumed work.

Then my Facebook contacts started pouring in with updates on the earthquake. I wasn’t too fussed yet until I saw a friend’s video of how trashed his apartment was and others reported the same in their offices. That freaked me out because in my four-and-a-half years in Tokyo, I had never heard of such damage caused by earthquake tremors.

I surveyed my place and it was completely unscathed in terms of broken glass. I was able to neaten up everything in a jiffy and the bathroom had some fallen products but that was about it.

My friends started emailing to ask if I was okay and I knew that it was an unusual event. I don’t think I was scared until this point of time because they never email when there is an earthquake so this one was extremely serious.

I turned on the news and read Twitter and Facebook obsessively and within a space of two hours, the sirens went off and the emergency loudspeaker kept announcing stuff in Japanese and English, both of which I could not understand because of the exaggerated echo. I asked my friends if I should stay put and they said it was safer to be indoors at that point.

I had given up on focusing on work and made some dinner to eat and to have something “normal” to do.

Night time on 11/3

I felt really calm by night fall and even turned off the Japanese news for awhile. I chatted with the kangaroo a bit and it was a relief to hear his voice.

With the images of Tokyoites stranded without transport in major hubs like Shinjuku and throngs of office workers around the Imperial Palace stuck in my mind, I was chatting with various friends online about what had happened.

A friend who lives in Yotsuya pinged me to ask if I was okay. The aftershocks were kind of freaking me out again and I accepted his invitation to hang out with him and his flatmate. I put on a scarf and coat and walked into the night.

The streets were flooded with people walking and carrying conbini plastic bags filled with drinks and food. There were long lines at public phones because the mobile phone network was down. The roads were jammed and unmoving. By 9pm, Ginza, Hanzomon, and Oedo lines on the Tokyo Metro were back up. Even then many people had to walk for hours to get home because it was impossible to catch a bus or taxi or train anywhere.

My friends and I drank some chu-hi and ate snacks while following the news. It seemed so surreal…I was going to return home at midnight but there were several aftershocks and sirens going on so I decided to stay overnight at my friend’s place for company. I was really scared and couldn’t sleep much especially since there was another major aftershock at 4am which was followed by another emergency announcement.

The day after…

It was a gorgeous early Spring day and there was nothing unusual at 930am on that Saturday morning except there were many grim and tired looking souls packed into the subway. I learned later that the trains only started operating around 8am.

I was starving so I made myself some breakfast and was about to take a shower but the kangaroo called me in a panic to inform me about the nuclear reactors exploding in Fukushima, 250 km north of Tokyo. He had been in my ear to leave for Osaka for a few nights till the chaos died down but from my viewpoint in Tokyo, everything was fine except for the tremors that came every hour.

He insisted that I stock up on food and draw money from the bank in case there was mass panic and hoarding. I have to admit I thought he was paranoid and said I would do so to appease him. I postponed my shower and set about my weekly grocery run. I usually go on the weekends to do a big shop so I told myself this one was no different…

Crowded but orderly supermarkets

Weekends in Akasaka, my neighborhood, are usually very quiet because it is a hub for financial companies without many residential homes. However, this Saturday saw long winding queues in my local supermarket. It struck me that others were doing the same as me which alarmed me a little.

Many people were buying toilet paper and water, plus bread and other snacks. Fresh food was being bought too and the only strangeness going on was that all the local brands of mineral water were gone. I could only find the pricier stuff like Evian and Vittel which I bought too. There were no AA batteries anywhere – the tiny AAA and big ones were available though. I needed some AA ones for my torchlight because Tokyo Electric warned of rolling blackouts that might happen between 6-7pm. But I wasn’t too worried because my torch still worked fine.

I lugged my shopping cart home filled with fresh food – it did occur to me that if I were stranded without electricity for a few days, all this fresh food could not be cooked then I thought to myself, “Well,
I’ll just go raw then…No cooking needed!”

With the 6pm cut off in mind, I took a shower and prepared some food and did some work. The kangaroo was upset in Sydney that i would not consider moving out of Tokyo for the interim and pointed out that international news sources were posting inaccurate and sensationalist information.

Around 8pm I was actually ready for bed due to all the excitement and lack of sleep the night before. I was downloading some movies to watch but my Yotsuya friend pinged me again to see how I was. He invited me to his place but I said was fine despite the frequent aftershocks. I was feeling quite battered mentally and wanted some alone time. My family and the kangaroo were urging me to leave Tokyo which I thought was not necessary at that point.

Bedtime on 11/4: a major aftershock

I was watching the latest episode of Top Chef Season 8 when a big, long rumble ripped through Tokyo at 1015pm. I jumped online and my friend pinged me on Facebook to say it was a big one of magnitude 6 at Fukushima where the ailing nuclear reactors were. Fear filled my heart once again. By 11pm, his flatmate had invited him and me to his hometown in Karatsu, Kyushu, because his worried brother ordered him to return home.

By midnight, our Shinkansen tickets were booked and we agreed to meet at 510am on the Maranouchi line on the way to Tokyo station. The kangaroo and my family were relieved that I was departing for south Japan which is a safe distance from the reactors that were leaking radiation by then.

I simply could not sleep so I packed a bag with three days’ worth of clothes and cleaned the house. I always clean the house before I go off on a long trip.

At 430am, I left my cozy apartment for what seemed like an abyss of the unknown. Will I come back soon? Will Japan be alright? I felt remorseful for leaving my home and my numerous friends whom I wanted to contact but since it was in the dead of the night, I didn’t.

My thoughts on Day 6 after the 3/11 earthquake in Japan

16 Mar

Hi everyone, I decided to break my silence on this blog after five-ish days of relative silence. To those who follow me on Facebook and Twitter, thank you for your sweet messages and concern. I am well and in a small town in Kyushu 90 minutes away from the prefecture’s city, Fukuoka. For the sake of those who do not know why I would leave Tokyo, the devastating earthquake last Friday, March 11, and the hundreds of aftershocks and volatile nuclear reactor problem in Fukushima pushed me to leave Tokyo to appease worried family and to get a peace of mind because I hardly slept a wink for 48 hours after the earthquake hit.

Before I elaborate more, i would like to say that I want to be honest with what i am going through and if any part of this post offends, my view is really just one of many and please do not judge me or others in this situation. I am quickly learning what is it like to be in the midst of a disaster and all it’s implications. For example the media, especially some international media sources, have been whipping this situation into a scare-mongering frenzy which is driving our families back in our home countries crazy with worry. Right now i am only following NHK, BBC, and the Japan Times for what I think is reliable information.

I also didn’t surface on Twitter or Facebook much except to say I was okay. I felt and still feel guilty for leaving Tokyo and compared to others going through much more severe hardship than I am, my random tweets and updates seemed mundane and maybe even insensitive.

What am I doing to pass the time here? Watching the news, checking emails, and relaxing. I even did a bit of sightseeing to clear my mind. Yesterday was a friend’s birthday (one of the few I left Tokyo with) and we had a home-cooked dinner with wine and then headed to his mother’s bar for some karaoke. We sang enthusiastically, in part to celebrate a friend’s birthday and to relieve our stress.

It is stressful to see Tokyo spiraling into infrastructure chaos what with the food and gas shortages plus Facebook reports of foreign friends fleeing the country or to other parts of Japan. Yes I’m looking from afar while it seems to get worse day by day but it is still distressing nonetheless.

I thought I would be back in Tokyo by now but it looks like we will be moving to Fukuoka or overseas on Friday.

What does this mean for my business? I don’t know for now. There are orders coming in but we just put a notice on our store to say deliveries will be delayed. My greatest fear is to shut it down and is probably not a wise public relations move but I think it is better to be honest and clear about my intentions now.

I hope to return to Tokyo if the situation improves but if it does not i will not return.

We are all sleeping better here in Kyushu but not sleeping much. We are just mostly monitoring the situation but got tired of that and walked around to run errands and even found a Uniqlo store where we bought more clothes and underwear to tide us over. It was pleasant not to be looking at nuclear reactor reports but it hit home that we were staying here beyond three days.

Please donate money to the disaster victims in Iwate, Miyagi and Sendai who are the worst hit.

I will check in again and please forgive the lack of posts or social media updates. I simply have no heart to describe a blow by blow of what I am going through now because I am not doing much anyway.